Child Care Choices

Tips for Choosing Infant & Toddler Care

Tips for Choosing Pre-School Care

Tips for Choosing After-School Care Options


Tips for Choosing Infant & Toddler Care

Daily care of an infant or toddler is a challenge that requires knowledge and effort. While personal style and values differ in families, these basic principles of good care for babies apply to all types of care-in home and out.

A good caregiver is Loving and Responsive

Hugs, rocks, cuddles, seeks eye contact and responds to the baby's smiles, emerging skills and interest, and finds ways to expand upon each experience.

Sociable and Interested

Talks with the baby about what they do and see, and is a playful partner who introduces the baby to new ideas, objects, games, and encourages social contacts.

Respectful of Individuality

Understands and welcomes the baby's development, and recognizes and tunes into the baby's personal rhythms, style, strengths, and limitations, and is comfortable with a special need.

Good surroundings for babies are clean, safe and filled with interesting and stimulating things so babies can explore, try out their natural curiosities and learn through free play. They should accommodate the needs of growing infants and toddlers and have well organized and separate eating and diapering areas.


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*Used with permission of the National Association for the Education and Young Children.

Tips for Choosing Pre-School Care

Programs meeting children's needs should be based on an understanding of each child's stage of physical, intellectual, emotional and social development. Programs providing age-appropriate practices will:

  • Provide children with a place where they feel safe and secure
  • Allow children choices within limits
  • Help children develop self-control
  • Encourage children to respect one another and cooperate
  • Promote independence and initiative
  • Inspire the child's individual creativity
  • Respect diversity and individual needs
  • Parents' needs are met by knowing that their child is in a nurturing and educationally appropriate place. Programs aimed at meeting parents' needs will:

  • Employ warm, nurturing and competent staff
  • Respect family's needs, values and cultural diversity
  • Offer information, resources and supportive services

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    Tips for Choosing School-Age Programs

    Excellent programs meeting students' needs will:

  • Provide indoor and outdoor space where children feel safe and secure
  • Provide students with age-appropriate activities
  • Allow students to engage in supervised small group interaction
  • Employ competent, trained and caring staff
  • Inspire the student's creativity
  • Respect diversity and individual needs
  • Allow students choices within limits
  • Set rules which are fair, reasonable and consistent
  • Offer snacks

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    Programs for Parents is designated as the Child Care Resource and Referral Agency for Essex County by the NJ Department of Human Services, Division of Family Development. The major funder of Programs for Parents is the State of New Jersey.